世紀之爭?
昨天吃了頓又貴又無聊的晚餐。55元!我可以吃上兩頓很快樂的晚餐。什麽人都不認識,跟身邊的朋友說,馬的。我們到外頭去聊天可以更快活一點不是嗎?
結果提前離開,到附近的M聊天。不知不覺一群老是愛討論奇怪話題的同學都歸位了。我們聊女人VS男人,特別是在新加坡的context。
朋友一板正經說了一堆很恐怖的話:Singaporean men wun keep calling their galfriends if singaporean women are not stupid and naive; singaporean women lost the ability to love, SW try to act tough and of cuz i pity them for being caught in a duo-lose lose situation...
Wow, we din see that coming... no doubt he meant it, but you know, he meant it as a matter of factly, not trying to put another one down...
I was rather bemused for it had been quite some time since i hear such theories/logics
I mean... 我自認不是個倔強的人,尤其對這種聽起來像是偏見的故事。朋友畢竟有屬於他獨特的經歷,我自己的經驗很難相同比較,therefore not right to justify from my point of view。我只是一味的問,You're just generalising right? Cuz I've great galfriends who are so totally not spoilt and all lor!
老是聽到男生抗議女生過分嬌縱,女生又投訴男人不夠溫柔。千古不能化的大疑問。
男人,女人,真的這麽糟?
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